It was in Middle School, we had a kind of prom ‘cept it was for the 8th graders, and all the guys wore suits and the girls wore dresses and stuff. A guy I liked had asked me to the dance earlier, and we met there. The dance itself was really fun. Afterwords he came over to my house for a little while. We live on a beautiful creek, and in my backyard we have a hammock by the waterside. The moon was up and there were tons of stars in the sky. The way the moon hit the water was just amazing, everything looked so beautiful. Anyway, me and my date went and sat on the hammock and talked for a while. Then he looked up at me and we looked in each others eyes for a long time. He leaned forward and kissed me. Then, pretty much as soon as his lips touched mine, the strings holding the hammock up broke and we both fell to the ground. We looked at each other then cracked up laughing. It was an amazing first kiss to me, better then I could’ve imagined… it was the kind that you know you’ll never forget :]

One of the most awkward experiences a person can have is at the end of a first date. Do you kiss and go home or do you “go upstairs for coffee?” The question of whether or not to have sex on the first date is something that is hotly debated. Listed below are some pro’s and con’s on the subject, followed by some advice on things to watch out for.
Pros of first date sex

* Possibility of great sex.
* It reinforces the feelings you have for your date.
* It shows whether the two of you are sexually compatible.
* You don’t have to part at the end of the night if you really like each other.

Cons of first date sex

* Sexually Transmitted Diseases.
* It could turn out to be a one-night-stand.
* You don’t typically know the person after just one date.
* It may be against your religious or moral beliefs.
* Your partner maybe a psycho (especially if this is a blind date).
* Your partner may think you are easy and devalue the entire experience.

Now, apart from the above, there is also the question of self-indulgence. Do you want to sleep with your date just to have sex? If that is the case and you don’t care if it turns out to be just a one-night-stand (and it is not against any religious or moral beliefs that you hold dear), then that is ok, as long as you are careful. However, if you expect to have a relationship with this person just because you slept with them, then don’t do it. My advice is that if you want to go out with this person again and develop a relationship with them, then hold off on having sex the first night. Take it a little slower and see how things develop.

Now, having said all that, it is a personal choice and if you decide not to sleep with your date, then listed below are a few things to watch out for so that you don’t end up in a potentially embarrassing, or dangerous, situation.

* Beware of back rubs or massages. These are generally a part of sexual foreplay and very often lead to sex.
* Do not allow them into your home at the end of the date or until you are ready to have sex.
* Don’t assume that just because you said no that your date will stop trying to sleep with you.
* Don’t lead them to believe that you will sleep with them. If necessary, tell them where they stand.

Because online dating has become the norm for meeting people I want to outline a few tips for using online dating services.

When you join an online dating service you have much the same feeling of anticipation and excitement as you do when you are about to go on a blind date. The prospect of having people approve of you and possibly accept you as someone they want to have around them is exhilarating.

Be Honest

But how do you create a powerful and compelling online dating profile? You’ve heard that honesty is the best policy…It is. Be honest. The person you’re trying to attract will eventually agree to meet you if you have written an eye catching profile. Eventually the “real” you will pop out. You don’t want to get dumped once your feelings are involved.

Statistics show that people can only keep up a façade of pretending to be something other than they are for approximately 3-6 months (there have been cases of years but that’s not the norm). If you want to find Mr./Mrs. Right, adhere to the honesty policy and represent yourself exactly as you are and not want you want others to perceive you.

Be clever and funny in your profile but be sincere. (Think of the online dating profile as if you were actually speaking to them in person for the first time.) If you’re funny, then show it in your writing. Don’t tell someone how funny you are, e.g. “I’m funny and have a great sense of humor.” That won’t make them a believer.

Here is an example of something funny and clever. Football fans will enjoy this one. (This is not for your profile, but used as an example of funny lines I have used when talking to an audience.):

“If your partner is more concerned about that 3rd and 1 on television, than the 4th and 23 in your own living room, then you might be another statistic on the playing field of love. Tell them not to try for a 58 yard field goal, go for six instead.”

Do you see what I’m writing about? Word pictures are very powerful tools that help draw the reader in and help to reveal who you are and what you’re about.

A Picture Says It All

Another important aspect of your online dating profile is pictures. Show them a picture of you. A picture speaks volumes about who you are. If you say you are sporty but have a picture of you sitting on a couch, what does that say? Use a picture of you on a bike, in a race, waterskiing, etc. Don’t use a High School picture if you are in your 20’s or older. Use a recent picture. They will find out what you look like when they meet you. Why draw someone in and then have them ditch you if you don’t look the same?

The eyes reveal a lot in a picture. If they sparkle with what’s called a “catch light,” the viewer will be more drawn to you. (A catch light is the little light that shows up on the pupil). If your eyes look suave, the viewer will probably click you away.

Avoid Turn-Offs

Make sure to do a spelling and grammar check before you post to an online dating site. Words that are spelt incorrectly and bad punctuation can tune a lot of people out and then they will click you off.

A few last words of advice: Forget about negativity in your profile and don’t talk about ex-relationships. That will give the reader a sense that you are a serial dater and perhaps a heartbreaker.

Avoid phrases like: “I don’t play games.”; “I love long walks on the beach, candlelight dinners, and romantic nights by the fire.” You can show them that when you meet them.

Every person I have surveyed in the past has said that lines such as the above are red flags and a sign that he/she is a “player.”

Online dating can be fun, exciting and successful, but be safe and enjoy the process. When you finally connect with someone on an online dating site, agree to meet at a coffee shop during the day. Never go off in their car no matter how safe they seem, always take yours.

If you’re nervous, as most of us are, prepare for your first encounter just as you would when vying for a promotion at work. Practice ahead of time! Make up a little 3×5 flash card set with subjects you are comfortable talking about or questions that are conversation initiators (forget about the weather, that’s a dried up subject).

Here are a few you can use that are sure to spark some interest:

* Read or watch the news ahead of time and discuss current events. Stick to positive uplifting ones and stay away from politics and religion. Example: Recently in the news there was a story about an autistic boy whose lifetime dream was to play basketball. To be close to the sport he did all the dirty jobs for both the boys and girls teams at his school. The last game of the season he was allowed on the court and scored a slam dunk.

* Talk about your family (positively). Example: I have two brothers and one sister. Growing up we…

* Liven up the conversation with topics of any recent travels. Example: Recently I traveled to Washington State to see the Fish Market in Seattle. Talk about your experiences there and what you saw.

* Ask about their career and how they happened upon it. Example: What do you do for a living? What made you decide on that career path? Did you go to school for your career choice?

* Ask about their family (if they shy away, you need to also). Example: Do you have brothers or sisters? Does your family live close?

These are just a few topics. If you can’t think of any yourself pour over the Internet for resources on topics of conversation. While I gave you a few suggestions above, there are many more I am sure you can come up with.

In the dating world, it seems that everyone expects the love of their life to fall from a tree and knock them dizzy with bliss. The facts of the matter are hardly as hit-and-miss as our secret desires would like them to be. When someone has a spell of good luck, it’s rarely because of some undeserved, haphazard gift bestowed upon them. If you look back to the period prior to any favorable happenings, you’ll discover a lot of hard work and planning were most likely involved. There is truth in the belief that the effort you put into something will be equal to the result you receive. Where people usually go wrong with this formula is extending the wrong type of effort. The same is true for finding a life mate.

If you don’t discern what you want or expect from your life, you’re never going to get it. You wouldn’t expect a business person to start a new business without researching the field and discovering if it’s a suitable fit. Yet, people consistently dive into the dating pool without first making sure of what they want. The fact that someone shows a bit of interest does not mean they are a suitable match for you. In the end, it isn’t just strong affection or love that makes a relationship work. It’s how compatible you are and how you deal with the little day-to-day things that count. The only way to truly discover what you need from a relationship is to actually plan and research exactly what you want.

When you are ready to seriously begin your quest for finding your life mate, use the following steps to help you get started.

Step 1: Do Your Research No great plan or endeavor can really get off the ground without research. Applying this to your love life may seem strange, but it really only takes a new perspective to get things going. First, analyze your past relationships. What traits or qualities did you really like about your previous partners? Write them down. Then take a look at what aspects of their personalities or your relationship that you disliked. Write those down as well.

You’ll probably get a fairly clear idea of your ideal mate at this point. However, don’t just stop with looking into the past. You’ll get an even more complete picture if you take a look at the people around you who have influenced your overall concept of the ideal relationship. Your parents or other family members’ relationships will affect your opinions greatly. Do the same comparison of likes and dislikes for them. If there are other friends or role models, be sure to analyze those as well.

Step 2: Understand Your Desires
Truly knowing yourself allows you to understand all of your strengths and weaknesses. Once you’re comfortable with what those are, you can find ways to make them work for you. For instance, if you’d rather eat dirt than clean, you know you’ll always need a housekeeper. You also have some more insight on what traits your perfect partner needs to have, in this case a high tolerance for sloppiness. For some of you, the weakness may be an insecurity issue. In this case, while eventually you may get over it, you probably don’t want to get involved with a social butterfly. You’re going to be a lot happier with someone who is a little more reserved in public. Some traits or qualities wouldn’t be considered deal breakers, while others are must haves. Each person is different, so these qualifiers will be unique to each individual. Your job is to figure out the must-have characteristics of your ideal partner.

First, define what you want and need. You did most of this in step one. Now it’s time to expand on your discoveries and get a complete picture of your ideal relationship. Make sure to include small snippets of things you’ve always envisioned doing. For instance, do you imagine someone who enjoys cuddling on the couch while watching scary movies with the snow falling outside? Whatever it is, make sure to write it down so you can refer back to it and make changes as necessary.

Next, you need to determine what certain terminology actually means to you. You won’t be able to express what you expect from a partner if you don’t even know what it is yourself. Take a while and really figure out what exactly does love mean to you. What is your idea of “romance”? What are your views regarding sex? What does marriage mean to you? What about commitment?

Now it’s time to look at what specific requirements you’d like your potential life partner to have. How important is education? What about their level of independence or financial stability? What stage in their career should they be at? What about religious beliefs? Is having a different romantic style a deal breaker?

By knowing ahead of time exactly what it is you’re looking for, you’ll be able to tell early in a relationship if the person you are with matches your criteria. This will allow you to end bad relationships before anything progresses too far. In addition, you’ll be able to move ahead with more confidence when you do find that particular someone who meets your expectations.

Step 3: Put Your Discoveries into Practice
So, you now know what you want, but how do you go about actually getting it? Since there are shelves of books dedicated to this pursuit, I’m just going to give you a few pointers to steer you in the right direction.

The first tip should be fairly obvious, but it’s amazing how often it’s over-looked. You’ve just dedicated all this time to figuring out what makes you tick, so it’s time to use it to your advantage. If you’re looking for someone to date, don’t go to a place you’re not likely to meet anyone with those qualifications. Try to find the best possible places where the odds of meeting someone with your particular interests are higher. If you love to cook, join some cooking classes. If you love to read, join a book club. If you love dancing, take some dance lessons. A little research into what your city offers could pay off quite nicely. When you talk with someone you are interested in, try bringing up the hobbies and interests you enjoy. Get a gauge early on as to whether you actually have things in common. This is also a great conversational segue to asking for an actual date.

When you go on your dates, do things that reflect how you want your marriage or long-term relationship to be. For instance, if you enjoy shopping, take your date on a few trips to the mall. If you love the outdoors, let your dates reflect that. Not only will you be finding out if you both enjoy the same things, you’ll also be giving your potential partner a better glimpse at who you really are. Even if things don’t work out romantically, if you discover you share common interests, you’ve at least gained a friendship.

At the end of a first date comes that awkward moment when you must decide if you want to kiss her or not.

Dating tips for GUYS only Also, if you do kiss her it had better be good to make a favorable impression. It may not be fair, but some single women will judge you on your first kiss as to whether she would be attracted to you want to date you again.

In other words, she must feel some chemistry when she kisses you.

If you are a lousy kisser, then you’re going to be a failure at creating good chemistry between you and your date. Is chemistry important on a first date? You bet it is! And if you’re a great kisser, you’re going to turn her on and have an edge on the other guys that date her that are lousy kissers.

So, just exactly what makes a good kisser and kisses that single women that you go out with won’t forget? The key is to be soft and gentle and follow her lead…that’s all there is to it.

on the first day of my service,i went to the my office very fast.suddenlly at the bus stand i saw the girl who sat at the bus-stand.for a sort time i only saw that girl.i saw her’s eyes which looks like stars.ofen when,i went to the office, i saw that beautiful girl.I don’t sleep very well,i don’t work porperally.one day i decied,i meet that girl& talk with her.After that day we mat every day&talk with each other for a long time.one i invite her to my house for a tea.we took tea& i saw her my house.After one year i feel that i love her.so,i decied that i tell her.I went to at her home &i bell her home’door.she opend the door.I tell her my feelings about her.I cleen tell her “I LOVE YOU”.she also replied me that”I LOVE YOU “also.After than two months we married.we went for honeymoon at hawaii the paradise of love.

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“I can do without you,
My Love, in all but two ways:
1. Sleep without you by my side.
2. Wake without you by my side.”

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i heard someone whisper ur name,
but when i turned around to c who it was,
i notice i was alone,
then i realize it was my heart
telling me that i miss u.

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As we go on
we remember all the times we had together.
And as our life changes come whatever
we will still be “friends forever”

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If I get scared,
wld u hold me tight?
If I make a mistake,
wld u make it rite?
If I build a fire,
wld u watch over e flame?
If I say i miss u,
wld u feel e same ?

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Love will fly if held too lightly.
Love will die if held too tightly.
How should I hold u.
How do I know
if I’m still keeping you or I’m letting go…

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Remember me and bare in mind
A faithful girl is hard to find
This is always good and true
So dont go changing old for new!

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I’d climb the highest mountain.
I’d swim the ocean blue
I’d do anything at all my dear,
Just to get away from you.

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Have I told you lately
how much I am in love with you???
No??
Think about it,
have a great life…

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On Independence Day
Here”s wising our dreams
of a new tomorrow come true for us…
NOW AND ALWAYS!
Goodbye!

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We enter relationships as a somebody
and leave them as a nobody.

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During breakups,
Boys always replace one worry with another,
but girls replace one happiness with another.

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Forgetting me is up to you,
Forget me not, 4gt
Forget me never,
But don’t forget,
We were great together.

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Relationships Are Like Glass …
Sometimes It’s Better
To Leave Them Broken
Than
Try To Hurt Yourself
Putting It Back Together …

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When life changes
& we go our separate ways.
You will still be in my heart til my dying days.
I tell no lie as this is true.
The world has never seen a freind like you.

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Love is a medicine for any kind of wound,
but there is no medicine found in the world
for a wound given by love.

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1 stone is enuf to break a glass,
1 sentence is enuf to break a heart,
1 second is enuf to fall in luv..
& 1 sms is enuf to keep relation in touch..
Take care!

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I can’t help these feelings I have for you, I know I’m not supposed to like you anymore, but I do and I just wish I could let you know that I’ll always be here for you.

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Break up text message by Britney to Fedex
I’m divorcing you, Kevin.
Crying real big tears — not –
because pre-nuptials rule.
See you in court.
Love ya lots bye, Britney.

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It’s just the feeling you get…
knowing you are that
special girl in his life…
and then you find out
you are not the only one…

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Sometimes it’s easier to say
you don’t care rather than
having to explain every reason
why you still do…

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You’re wrong
You mean nothing to me
You never meant anything
Even when i swore you did.

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The thing that hurts the most
Is thinking that to you
I was just another one of those girls

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Summer rain wash away
And i’m gonna be ok
All the pain gone away
Find a way make a change
Tomorrow brings another day
For you and i to love…
For you and i to walk away

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He says “i love you”
I say “Bullshit ”

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You broke my heart
And hurt me so bad
It felt like you cut me with a knife…
But its time to move on..
And you’ll regret doing this to me later
And say damn that girl really did love me……

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Theres Many Things I Like About You.
One Thing That I Cant Stand.
That One Thing Is
That You Dont Feel Anywhere
Near The Way I Feel For You .

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You could’ve broken anything you wanted
But instead you chose to break my heart
Thanks for destroying me.

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It’s not the fact that you lied to me that hurts,
It’s the fact that you promised

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The girl who seemed unbeatable..
BROKE!
The girl who seemed strong…
CRUMBLED!!
The girl who always laughed things off….
CRIED!!!
The girl who never stopped trying…
FINALLY GAVE UP!!!!
It’s Over!
And now,
She will NEVER be looking backk,,

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Remember wen u said youd always love me ?
What happened?

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Honey,
I’ m gonna make the day you met me
A day that you’ll always regret .

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You said the way my
blue eyes shined
put the Georgia stars
to shame at night;
I said that’s a Lie

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So much for my
” happy ending”

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just one more thing before you leave…
don’t forget to remember me

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3 Words
“I Love You”
Can mean everything
Or nothing at all.

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I now finally realize
That there are some
Things in life that
I Just Cant Change
Its Over. Goodbye

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The world we knew
Won’t come back
The time we’ve lost
Can’t get back
The life we had
will never be the same

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You think you’re the best thing
that ever happened to me? ? ?
Boy, have I got news for you.
You’re so much more than that.

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Don’t cry because its over…
SMILE because it actually happened.

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My knight in shining amor turned out being a
LOSER
in Aluminum foil.

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Guess I have to learn
to move on because its obvious
I’m not good enough for him

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I am not happy that it happened
but I am happy it happened with you.

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I’m saying this to help all of you guys out there
looking for the prefect break up quote.

STOP!!

Forget about the one who hurt you
and move on to better things….
He/She doesn’t deserve even your thought about him/her.

MOVE ON

Trust me its easier.

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2. If you think you’re fat, you probably are. Don’t ask us.

3. Learn to work the toilet seat: if it’s up put it down.

4. Don’t cut your hair. Ever.

5. Birthdays, Valentines, and Anniversaries are not quests to see if he can find the perfect present, again!

6. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to, expect an answer you don’t want to hear.

7. Sometimes, he’s not thinking about you. Live with it.

8. Don’t ask him what he’s thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as navel lint, the shotgun formation and monster trucks.

9. Get rid of your cat. And no, it’s not different, it’s just like every other cat.

10. Dogs are better than ANY cats. Period.

11. Sunday = Sports. It’s like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.

12. Shopping is not a sport.

13. Anything you wear is fine. Really.

14. You have enough clothes.

15. You have too many shoes.

16. Crying is blackmail. Use it if you must, but don’t expect us to like it.

17. Your brother is an idiot, you ex-boyfriend is an idiot and your Dad probably is too.

18. Ask for what you want. Subtle hints don’t work.

19. No, he doesn’t know what day it is. He never will. Mark anniversaries on a calendar.

20. Yes, pissing standing up is more difficult than peeing from point blank range. We’re bound to miss sometimes.

21. Most guys own two or three pairs of shoes — What makes you think we’d be any good at choosing which pair, out of thirty, would look good with your dress?

22. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers.

23. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.

24. Your Mom doesn’t have to be our best friend.

25. Foreign films are best left to foreigners.

26. Check you oil.

27. Don’t give us 50 rules when 25 will do.

28. Don’t fake it. We’d rather be ineffective than deceived.

29. It is neither in your best interest or ours to take the quiz together.

30. Anything we said 6 or 8 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after 7 days.

31. If you don’t dress like the Victoria’s Secret girls, don’t expect us to act like soap opera guys.

32. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad and angry, we meant the other one.

33. Let us ogle. If we don’t look at other women, how can we know how pretty you are?

34. You can either ask us to do something OR tell us how you want it done — not both.

35. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

36. Christopher Columbus didn’t need directions, and neither do we.

37. Women wearing Wonder bras and low-cut blouses lose their right to complain about having their boobs stared at.

38. Consider Golf a mini-vacation from you. We need it, just like you do.

39. Telling us that the models in the men’s magazines are airbrushed makes you look jealous and petty and it’s certainly not going to deter us from reading the magazine.

40. The relationship is never going to be like it was the first two months we were going out.

AND FINALLY, THE NUMBER ONE RULE:
1. Don’t rub the lamp if you don’t want the genie to come out.

I never was struck before that hour
With love so sudden and so sweet.
Your face it bloomed like a sweet flower
And stole my heart away complete.

My face turned pale, a deadly pale.
My legs refused to walk away,
And when she looked what could I feel
My life and all seemed turned to clay.

And then my blood rushed to my face
And took my eyesight quite away.
The trees and bushes round the place
Seemed midnight at noonday.

I could not see a single thing,
Words from my eyes did start.
They spoke as chords do from the string,
And blood burnt round my heart.

Are flowers the winter’s choice
Is love’s bed always snow
She seemed to hear my silent voice
Not love appeals to know.

I never saw so sweet a face
As that I stood before.
My heart has left its dwelling place
And can return no more.

Use your touch, words, tone of your voice, your smile and expression generously. Look into her eyes sincerely (research shows a person can tell when his/her partner is lying), and say something from the bottom of your heart (if you got nothing to say, don’t lie just smile). Girls are most emotional, they always think with feelings, therefore beware what you put in. Rather than saying how cute she/he is a 1000 times just pull her nose. Love songs can be a powerful tool - in your relationship… but guys always remember there will be a point in your life where you have to let go (be seperated) no matter what. Remember my saying : “Know how nice it is to love somebody but also know the pain to be seperated from him/her” Trust me give me enough financial, time and freedom of touch - I am certain to make anyone love me (girls of course - I’m not gay).

There are several romantic places where couples can go to spend some quality time together. Where a couple goes together depends on their interests and the type of people they are. Some people are outdoors types, while others would rather be inside somewhere, enjoying a glass of wine.

Romantic Places For the couple who like being outdoors, there are endless places to go and enjoy nature. Beaches have always been a romantic place for couples to go for a walk or a picnic. There is something very romantic about being near the water and watching the waves. Just the sound of the beach puts a person in a romantic mood. The sound of the water and birds and maybe even a foghorn in the distance if it is a foggy day, is very sensual. Keep in mind some of the most romantic walks couples can have are on beaches on a cloudy day. The sun does not have to be shining to spend a romantic day at the beach. Dress yourselves warm and start a bonfire on the beach if you can. Roast some hotdogs and marshmallows and enjoy a drink together while listening to the crackling bonfire. Share a warm hug together.

Another very romantic place to go is to a cottage in the country somewhere. If this cottage is near the water, that is even better! There is nothing like a weekend excursion to a cottage with your loved one. Pack your things, plan a menu and jump in the car and go! If the cottage has a fireplace, it is one of the most romantic features for sure. To sit by the fire and have a glass of wine and listen to soft music is extremely romantic. Don’t forget to bring your favorite chips and dip too! Snacks are good to munch on while laughing together into the night. Just watching the hot flames of the fireplace flickering in the darkness ignites passion for a couple in love.

Picnics in a park or in the woods are nice too. Being amongst the trees and flowers in the woods is very romantic. Hearing the birds chirping and having the warm sunshine down on you as you walk through the woods together enhances love somehow. There is a certain peace a couple gets by being in nature together. Being in the woods feels so natural and brings out a sort of primitive romance that can be very sexy!

Another romantic place where a couple can go is out on a boat together. Either going out on a sailboat or speedboat is very romantic. There is something that being out on the water together, away from the land that is exciting and fun. In a speedboat the wind blows through your hair and there is a certain feeling of freedom that you feel with the one you love.

There is a certain art to being romantic. Romance requires a person to be attentive to the details of love. Romance is about creating atmosphere, mood, feelings, thoughts and actions in a passionate way.

Art of Romance A romantic atmosphere is created with candles, soft music, flowers, and fragrances.

A combination of romantic items set the mood for love and passion. Wine, chocolates and a variety of finger foods all add to creating a mood for love and romance. If the atmosphere is right, romantic will follow.

When selecting candles, you may consider vanilla, as it is a scent, which appeals to most people and awakens the passionate senses. A variety of music is romantic in nature, especially classical and instrumental nature CDs. There is nothing like the sounds of nature to inspire primitive passion. The sounds of water in a brook, songbirds, crickets and other wildlife inspire and nurture love.

The wine you select can really add to the romance too. Often a good quality red wine from Australia, Italy or France is a good choice. After picking out a good bottle of wine, you should set up a nice table with wineglasses and a candle in the center. Try putting some glitter on the tablecloth as it can really add some festiveness to the evening of romance.

Also the flowers you pick out can bring passion to the evening. Roses are often the best choice of flowers as they express romance. Red roses are very popular as they have such a beautiful fragrance and represent love and passion. If you get red roses, long stem roses are the most beautiful. If you have some loose rose petals, you may want to place them on the floor or table.

Chocolate is an aphrodisiac and is certainly a must for a romantic evening. Truffles are the best, as they are so creamy and decadent. When selecting the type of chocolate, dark chocolate is the best for its aphrodisiac qualities.

Also, if you have an indoor serenity pond, it can create a very relaxing and romantic sound in the background. There is something very soothing about hearing water trickle over rocks. The sounds of nature are very romantic and set a beautiful mood for the evening. If it is a warm summer night, you may want to open the window a little bit to let a gentle breeze blow into the room. All these things create a mood and atmosphere for romance.

Embrace the art of romance. Be creative and express love in many ways to your loved one. Create an atmosphere that invites love and romance into your life. Let candles be the light as you drink a glass of wine with the one you love. Look at each other in the soft light and listen to the gentle music combined with the sounds of nature as the warm summer breeze comes in. Let love dance in the room as the candle flickers softly. Embrace love with all your passion!

Sensuality enhances romance in so many ways. What we hear, see, feel, smell and touch activates so many powerful responses in people. The sense of smell is often said to be one of the most powerful human senses. A perfume or cologne of a lover for instance can activate an instance emotional or mental response associated with a certain time, place and person.

Sensuality and Romance Hearing certain sounds or music will also trigger memories that we associate something with. A love song may be playing on the radio which reminds you of someone or something instantly. Sometimes we have no control of how quickly our senses respond to certain stimuli. Sensuality is very powerful.

A touch can really trigger memories too. Have you ever touched a fabric and suddenly you think of something that you associate it with? Maybe someone has kissed you passionately and you can’t forget it. Sometimes it is the memories of a touch that brings us back to the person.

Feeling and touching are very sensual. Passion goes through the roof if a couple is strongly attracted to the way each other feels or touches. The human touch communicates so much even without words being said. Listen to what your lover’s touch says to you, next time you are together. A person can be speechless, but their hands can have lots to say.

To truly experience the passion of romance, a person needs to be in tune with their senses and the senses of their lover. It is amazing how heated a relationship can get when both partners are in tune with each other in all the sensual ways. It is only natural to embrace the desires of the senses when you are with the person that you love.

Speak loving words in your partner’s ear. Wear a sexy perfume or cologne next time you are together. Reach for each other’s hand. Kiss with endless passion and desire. Listen to what your partner whispers in your ear. When you look at your partner, let your eyes absorb all the details of their beauty. Let your eyes rest on their smile. See if you can see their inner spirit when you look into their eyes. Don’t be so quick to look away. Take your time; hold your partner’s hand just a little bit longer. Take a few extra moments to see, feel, touch, smell and listen to all the beautiful things that make love and passion into such a powerful and meaningful experience.

Dress up and go out on a date with your partner. Relive all those sensual things that you experienced together when you first started dating. Don’t let the passion of your relationship’s start to fade away. It takes a little effort sometimes to keep the passion and the sensuality thriving but true love needs to be nurtured and it should be.

“I used to hate my neighbor, but I became close to him when we started hanging out during the summer. One day, we met up and walked around town, went swimming, and then laid out on a trampoline under a blanket looking up at the stars. We just talked and cuddled the whole time. We even had a contest about who could spot the most shooting stars (I won!). It was just so nice. We finally decided that we should get back to our houses, so he walked me home. When we got to my driveway, I turned to leave, but he called after me. When I looked back, he grabbed me and hugged me. Then he kissed me! I fell in love at that moment and it was probably the most perfect night of my life. We never ended up dating — he was moving two weeks later. But we keep in touch, and I’ll always remember that night!”