I’ve been chasing this girl for three years and now that I have her it’s great. I fell in love with her and she fell in love with me. We’ve had our share of problems. She says I’ve changed, but I don’t know how. I just want to make her feel safe, even though she says she’s fine. I know that there’s something bothering her, but she won’t tell me. She says that I’m not the guy she fell in love with. She said at the start we talked about anything and everything, and now we mostly talk about sex. I find that it’s hard to stop, but we decided to take it slow. So, the question is…How can I get back to that person I was? We’ve been going out for 8 months. I love her so much and want be the best for her. Can you help please? -Losing Her Quickly

Every relationship has plateau stages where the initial interests seem to have worn off. It is at these stages when most couples tend to self-evaluate the relationship. In this case, she says the problem is the pressure of sex. She may be feeling as if all the focus is on a sexual relationship, and not a romantic one. There needs to be an equal balance, and women in particular need to know they are wanted for more than just a means to an end. My advice would be to take some extra measures to woo her. Have you gone out on dates like you used to? Have you made out without going all the way? Communicate to her through your actions that you want this to work.

I am 27 and in love with two guys. One is a few years older than I am and is basically at the same stage in life as I am. He, however, is my ex-boyfriend. We broke up because he cheated. He claims to have changed his ways, but I am still not convinced. The other guy is a few years younger than I am. The problem here is that he is not quite ready for the responsibility for family life, etc. as of yet. When I am with him though, I am totally happy. He has brought so much happiness to my life. As a matter of fact he was the guy that was there for me when I was trying to recover from a broken heart. I know for a fact that if he was a bit older he would definitely be my pick, but because he is younger I am confused and need some advice. Should I stick to my ex because with him I can have all the material stuff I desire and hope to find happiness with him or should I hold on to my present happiness with the younger guy and patiently wait for the other aspects of the relationship to fall into place?
–Caught Between Two

Well, my first reaction is to wonder why you feel you have only two options. I would probably avoid guy number one like the plague. Honestly, based on the facts you’ve given, it feels like an open invitation to misery. Your second pick doesn’t appear to have any obvious flaws, except that you are not in the same life stages. This could be a huge problem if that is important to you. You can’t sit and wait for someone to mature. What if they don’t? You also don’t choose a partner based on future emotional potential. That’s just playing with fate.

Since neither option really looks like an option, my best advice would be to start searching for door number three. You already know exactly what you want and do not want in a relationship. If you stick to those guidelines, your third foray at finding love should be a charm.

The smile on your face lets me know that you need me theres a truth in your eyes saying youll never leave me the touch of your hand says youll catch me if ever I fall You say it best when you say nothing at all.

Maybe you’re happy now
Maybe you have a sweetest smiles of
all the smile I never see..
Maybe you’re wishing
I hope this day, maybe next day or maybe
on the next day all about you will be erase
And I wish I fall inlive again
“Thank you, coz’ you taught me
how to be strong.”

If a kiss was a raindrop I’d send you showers…
If hugz were a second I’d send you hours…If smilez were water I’d send you the sea…
If love was a person I’d send you me…

A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations. The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations… such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner’s upper or lower lip… And don’t just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids. This can be very seductive and romantic

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.
If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don’t take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don’t want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don’t wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.

And don’t wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner’s and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner’s head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.

Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner’s lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner’s. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.

Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you’d give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you’re nervous.

if you wanna worship me, if you wanna state your claim, if you wanna follow me- do it now .if you wanna share my space ,if you wanna seal your fate ,if you wanna melt with me- do it now cause i know … i need you now …if you’re gonna read my thoughts, if you wanna fill my walls, if you’re gonna speak my name- say it now… do it now cause i know … i need you now

I sit here tonight
with thoughts of you.
Wishing you were here with me
like I always do.

I know that we will be together
again some day.
When that day comes we will have nothing but
smiles on our faces and our skies no longer grey.

In this time that we are apart,
I know that we are in one anothers heart.
We always will be,
just like we were from the start.

You are a part of me,
and I am a part of you.
That is something so special
and very true.

Your gentle touch
I miss so much.
How could someone
keep something away from us,
that is so precious as such.

I do know, when there is a will
there is a way.
I promise you we will be together
forever again one day.

Until then, always remember
that I love you forever.
Also know, that is something
none can take away, ever!!

“The antidote for fifty enemies is one friend.”
~Aristotle

“Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow”
~Unknown

“Friendship is like money, easier made than kept.”
~Samuel Butler

“Friendship is the only thing in the world concerning the usefulness of which all mankind are agreed.”
~Marcus T. Cicero

“Don’t walk in front of me, I may not follow; Don’t walk behind me, I may not lead; Walk beside me, and just be my friend.”
~Albert Camus

“A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.”
~ Walter Winchell

” Fate chooses our relatives, we choose our friends.”
~Jacques Delille

When it comes to marriage. Some people are made for it and some just are not. There is such a thing as being happily single.

I love thee with all my heart
I love thee more than life its self
When I am with you I feel whole
You are my life my everything you are my world
Written by kXssandra bokman

I was reading “A Separate Peace” by John Knowles and I came across this outstanding quote.. I guess it can go for pretty much anything.”…You have to do what you think is the right thing, but just make sure it’s the right thing in the long run, and not just for the moment…”

I saw a humorous definition which said,
“Love is a heterogeneous conglomeration of absurdity
calculated to bamboozle the anatomy of the individual
who becomes intoxicated with its abominable and irresistible power”.

Liars when they speak the truth are not believed.
Aristotle (384 BC - 322 BC), from Diogenes Laertius, Lives of Eminent Philosophers

Lying increases the creative faculties, expands the ego, and lessens the frictions of social contacts.
Clare Booth Luce (1903 - 1987)Repetition does not transform a lie into a truth.
Franklin D. Roosevelt (1882 - 1945), radio address, October 26, 1939

The visionary lies to himself, the liar only to others.
Friedrich Nietzsche (1844 - 1900)

All men are frauds. The only difference between them is that some admit it. I myself deny it.
H. L. Mencken (1880 - 1956)

It is always the best policy to speak the truth–unless, of course, you are an exceptionally good liar.
Jerome K. Jerome (1859 - 1927)

A lie told often enough becomes the truth.
Lenin (1870 - 1924)

A lie can travel halfway around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes.
Mark Twain (1835 - 1910)

The history of our race, and each individual’s experience, are sown thick with evidence that a truth is not hard to kill and that a lie told well is immortal.
Mark Twain (1835 - 1910), Advice to Youth

False words are not only evil in themselves, but they infect the soul with evil.
Plato (427 BC - 347 BC), Dialogues, Phaedo

A liar should have a good memory.
Quintilian, De Institutione Oratoria

Truth is beautiful, without doubt; but so are lies.
Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 - 1882)

Ambition drove many men to become false; to have one thought locked in the breast, another ready on the tongue.
Sallust (86 BC - 34 BC), The War with Catiline

Any fool can tell the truth, but it requires a man of some sense to know how to lie well.
Samuel Butler (1835 - 1902)

Oh what a tangled web we weave,
When first we practise to deceive!
Sir Walter Scott (1771 - 1832), Marmion, Canto vi. Stanza 17.

Truly, to tell lies is not honorable;
but when the truth entails tremendous ruin,
To speak dishonorably is pardonable.
Sophocles (496 BC - 406 BC), Creusa

No love can be like a large empty room. Fill it with tenderness and kindness. Watch the love bloom.
Written by Lamar Cole