You’ve got butterflies, good conversation, maybe even great sex, but sometimes it can be difficult to be sure if it’s love. How do you decipher whether the feeling in the pit of your stomach is the nervous quivering of anticipation or yesterday’s lunch? Luckily,we knows that “fools in love” are easy to spot. Here are some tell-tale signs that it just be might be love, love, love.

You are best friends. You laugh with them more than anyone else. The feelings of anticipation, passion, and connection are mutual. You remember little things about each other like their favorite foods, the places they want to visit and why, their views on everything from politics to fashion, and what they love about their closest buddies, but is it enough? Take a look at these signs to be sure.

What he’ll do:

* Put you on his “A” list (pay attention — You’ll know if you’re not on it)
* Introduce you to his family
* Make plans for the future (near and far)
* Do things outside of his “box” with you
* Share his secrets and his dreams for the future with you
* Worry about impressing your friends
* Come right over when you ask him to
* Try to do things that comfort you or relieve some of your stress (like surprise you with dinner on a night you are working, rub your feet, or ask about your day)
* Appreciate and reciprocate your feelings and your actions like giving you a massage after he gets one from you, doing the dishes after dinner, or sending you a gift

What she’ll do:

* Share her embarrassing moments and fantasies with you
* Little things all throughout the day that let you know she’s thinking about you
* Fantasize about her life with you, getting married, having kids, growing old, traveling the world, etc.
* Tease you
* Hang out with your mother or talk to her on the phone
* Appreciate and reciprocate your feelings and your actions, like offering to pay for dinner, getting tickets to a game or event she knows you’ll love, or cooking for you
* Ask questions about your life — past, present, and future
* Flirt with you

How you’ll feel:

* Excited, yet relaxed
* Vulnerable, yet strong
* Comfortable enough to be yourself in front of them
* Like you want to include them in everything (but you won’t desert your usual crowd to be in a relationship with them)
* You’ll miss them when they’re not around
* You can’t wait to see them, talk to them, play with them, and kiss them
* You’ll find yourself wanting to make plans to have them all to yourself
* You’ll have urges to do romantic things (maybe on the verge of stalker-like things) that you never thought you’d never do

Signs that it’s not love:

* They blow you off or cancel dates
* Talking about commitment makes either of you uneasy or nervous
* Either of you are seeing other people
* Things are moving too quickly for one of you
* You find your partner lacking when compared to other people
* You watch a love scene in a movie or hear a love song and you feel a strong longing or desire for what you don’t have

Tips before you commit:
* Take the time to compare who you have with who you know deep down that you desire and deserve. Likewise, compare the relationship you have with the one you know you really want.
* Pay attention to how they treat their friends, family, business associates, and strangers. This is a good indication of how they will treat you over time and a big insight into their overall character.
* Ask yourself how well you know them and how well they know you.

Well my baby daddy told me the other night that he wanted to change so me && him could be together. Ever since then he has been really sweet to me. He took me out to eat a few times && all that. The only thing that im really worried about is him hurting me again.. He has told me before that he was wanting to change && i believed him. But he hurt me. I wanna be with him so bad. But i dont know how the results will turn out. I dont wanna end up the same wayy we did before.. What do you all think that i should do?! Do you think that i should get back with him?! I was with him for about 4 years. So its gunna be really hard to get over him.. So please.. Someone HELP ME!

its been a mad few months..i saw you that night and i wanted so badly to be with you!it was crazy cuz i didnt know u i guess i jus felt sumfin! we got together and i believed it was fate,i felt so comfortable so assured i thought it was my time to be happy,then i find out im pregnant..so soon..i was so scared but u seemed pleased i honestly believed this was it..but i got it wrong again.now im alone im pregnant and im so scared.i dont know how to deal with this hurt or pain.and u have just dissapeared.where are u?what happend to my lovely james?the one who told me we could do anythin togrther?u seem so lost i just want u 2 come home cuz i miss u..and im so full of sadness..im scared james.so very scared.

Our story is different. Dale is from the US and I am from Hong Kong. Dale and I met on ICQ and over time, we fell in love with each other. Sounds pretty wild huh? But the story ending will probably even surprise you more.

On June 8th, 1999, I came to the US to meet him. It is an amazing experience, even now I can still remember how sweet I felt when I saw him for the first time, I wish the clock will stop and we can just enjoy that moment without any interruption from the outside world. His first touch, first smile, our first eye contact, our first kiss - everything made me feel like I was the luckiest person on earth. We just feel so good about our relationship.

On June 18th something that change our lives happened. There was a wedding ceremony and we were the two main person involved in it. So here I am, living in a pretty house with a big yard with my sweetheart Dale. Not to forget I have two step-daughters, Chelsea and Hillary. We live happily together and I am enjoying the life here. Our story inspires myself that, love has no distance.

everything started 2 years ago…nathan was with a girl named brit…she couldnt stand me because what i have and because i get along with people that know her too …she is very rude,kind of a beachy person..and one day nathan maneged to find out my cellphone number…so…from here started everything.we started to talk a lot..but after a time brit started to be gelous…and tried to separate us…she started to pick up on me…to give rude messages and to threat me..in one day,they got into a fight and they brooked up..after some time we got more closer and closer..until one night when we kissed…and after that we were together only when we where at some party…cause after that day none of us had the courage to talk about this…until one day when i meet Razvan..we start dating…but in one night when i was at a party without razvan but nathan was there too..at the end of the night he drove me home and we start kissing,and i felt very sorry because i allready was with someone…so i told him that i’m seeing somebody else..than was the last time we were togheter…but after that we allways talked and we met a lot of times and we became very good friends…when he got beck together with her(last year) i accepted the fact that he is with the girl that will never going to be kind, because i thought that she changed and she will be 100% for him….but she wasnt..she hated me more and more….they were allways fighting about me…and one day i found out that she was cheating on him with 3 guys….before this i heard a lot of rumors that she is cheating on him with others but i didn told him anything because i didnt know how…until one day when i found out about those 3 guys and i talked with him and told him about these 3 guys..they broked up…i was allways there for him,anytime he needed..even if sometimes we felt more than we were just friend…but those feelings we keeped it just for us..in the present he is my best friend,sometimes he tells me that i’m number one for him,and sometimes i have the impresion that he wants more from me…but he doesnt tryes anything cause he knows that razvan is everything for me and that i love him!I feel weird sometimes when i tell him about razvan cause i don’t know what are his real feelings for me…during those years brit done a lot of demages in my life…so i can’t stand her…i don’t want her to be part of my life anymore cause for me she doesnt exist!i could’nt be ok with the fact that a close friend of mine has something with her…and now the problem is that nathan was one night with her again(after almost one year in wich they didn’t talked…and after one year in wich he told a friend of mine that he was just a waist of time,i think that she is just playing on 2 fields)..and the thing is that i can’t stand this situation…i don’t wanna lose him..cause he is my best friend and i care very much for him,but i know that they wont be ok.cause he doesnt trust her and she will never change…and in the end it will all be the same like until now!maybe i should anderstand if he wants to be with her…but if he is my best friend and we’ve been trought some many what’s the point of losing our friendship for something that wont last…or for an adventure…..anyway whatever happens even
if he will be with her  i’ll allways be here for him…

I watched intently as my little brother was caught in the act. He sat in the corner of the living room, a pen in one hand and my father’s brand-new hymnbook in the other.

As my father walked into the room, my brother cowered slightly; he sensed that he had done something wrong. From a distance I could see that he had opened my father’s new hymnal and scribbled in it the length and breadth of the first page with a pen. Now, staring at my father fearfully, he and I both waited for his punishment. And as we waited, there was no way we could have known that our father was about to teach us deep and lasting lessons about life and family, lessons that continue to become even clearer through the years.

My father picked up his prized hymnal, looked at it carefully, and then sat down, without saying a word. Books were precious to him; he was a clergyman and the holder of several degrees. For him, books were knowledge, and yet he loved his children. What he did next was remarkable. Instead of punishing my brother, instead of scolding or yelling or reprimanding, he sat down, took the pen from my brother’s hand, and then wrote in the book himself, alongside the scribbles John had made: John’s work, 1959, age 2. How many times have I looked into your beautiful face and into your warm, alert eyes looking up at me and thanked God for the one who has now scribbled in my new hymnal. You have made the book sacred, as have your brothers and sister to so much of my life.

“Wow,” I thought. “This is punishment?”

The years and the books came and went. Our family experienced what all families go through and perhaps a little bit more: triumph and tragedy, prosperity and loss, laughter and tears. We gained grandchildren, we lost a son. We always knew our parents loved us and that one of the proofs of their love was the hymnal by the piano. From time to time we would open it, look at the scribbles, read my father’s expression of love, and feel uplifted.

Now I know that through this simple act my father taught us how every event in life has a positive side - if we are prepared to look at it from another angle - and how precious it is when our lives are touched by little hands. But he also taught us about what really matters in life: people, not objects; tolerance, not judgment; love, not anger. Now I, too, am a father, and, like my dad, a clergyman and holder of degrees. But unlike my father, I do not wait for my daughters to secretly take books from my bookshelf and scribble in them. From time to time I take one down - not just a cheap paperback but a book that I know I will have for many years to come, and I give it to one of my children to scribble or write their names in. And as I look at their artwork, I think about my father, the lessons he taught me, the love he has for us and which I have for my children - love that is at the very heart of a family.

I think about these things and I smile. Then I whisper, “Thank you, Dad.”

The day I laid eyes on you. I knew that God had answered my prayers. You amaze me in so many ways. Every morning I wake up I know that my day is going to be a Great! Just knowing I will get to see your gorgeous smile. You are an inspiration to me everyday. You help me to believe in myself when I don’t believe.When we are together, it feels like time has stopped, like for one moment the whole word revolved around us. When you kiss me I melt, it feels like a first kiss over and over again. They way you touch me so kind and caringly. I can’t recall I day I have been around you and have not seen a smile on your face. Even when you are in pain, you don’t let it show knowing it would bother me to see you in pain. You have such a positive outlook on life and have a wonderful attitude towards life. Baby you mean more then anything to me and I never want us to part. I dream of the day we both say I do and all that will matter at that moment is the fact that we will be together for the rest of our lives. But for now I just want to build our relationship and make it stronger. Thanks for not only being the most amazing boyfriend but my best friend too. Zachary James I will love you until my very last breath.

You are beautiful to me in more ways than you can see,
You are always on my mind,
it is obvious that you are the world to me.
From your amazing smile, to the sparkle in your eye,
I don’t know how else to say it,
you make me want to be a better guy.
You can think that I am crazy,
and you can think that I am a fool,
But every time that I am with you, I fall deeper and deeper in love with you.
Since the day I set eyes on you, you are all that I have been thinking of,
Just take my hand, and I will give you everlasting love.
I do not know how to explain it, I feel I’m losing my mind,
But a girl as wonderful as you, is very hard to find.
You mean a lot to me, and you are special in your own way,
You make me feel good inside, and you light up my day.
In all past relationships all they did was give you pain and harm, but I promise you this,
as long as your with me, I will never do you wrong.
There is nothing more than I would rather do,
than taking the time, and spending it with you.
You make me laugh, and you make me smile, on you God went the extra mile.
There is something special about you that sets you apart,
and when I laid eyes on you, you captured my heart.
I have prayed to God to bring me someone like you,
And once you came into my life, I knew that my wish had come true.
I am in love with you, and you are always on my mind,
I want to say I love you, and I want you forever by my side.

He is your man.
When he walks in,
Makes you feel like
No one else can.
You found this love,
Who makes you feel redeemed.
He proposed to you,
And made you feel like a queen.

He must love you,
So you say,
He gave you a ring,
Now you waiting for the wedding day.

But he can’t love you,
From what I see;
Because if he did,
He would not have sexed me.

Love is something special, something that you have, love is something special, it will always last.

When true love is after you,
Never neglet it.
When true life is after you,
Never succumb to it,Cause, a life without love,
Or a love without love,
Is me without you,
And you without me.

I once learned to love but only to have my heart broken but I have learned to love again only to learn the pain of another’s heart. I have waited for your heart to heal so our journey can finally begin. You have taken my life and made it yours. I have fallen deeply in love.I lock all that we have and know in my heart with only my soul to hold the key that will provide the path in which we will follow to the end.
I love you now and forever I will love you no matter the outcome you will always be the dream that has taught me that I can love again if I believe.

I always seem to wonder why, why you went away.
I wonder what your doing now, I wonder where you are.
I wonder if you are coping fine, and being the star that you are.
I wonder if you think about me as much as I think of you.
I wonder if you miss me, cause I miss you.

Why did you move away why did you go you didn’t even say goodbye that was so rude I never thought you would leave my side, even though you didn’t say goodbye I know you wanted too.
I wonder why you didn’t call or even send a message.
I wondered why you didn’t answer your door or why I never heard your dog at the gate.

On Christmas day the most important day that we used to spend with each other I got a call from your mother she said that you’re living with your grand mother. She said that it was urgent and she said that she was sorry she didn’t say goodbye.

I wonder what she is doing there whether her grand mother was ill but that’s all I heard I didn’t hear no more.
I wonder if you will come to visit.
I wonder if you will write a letter and send it in the mail.
I wonder if you still want to be friends.
I wonder.
I wonder whether I should just give up
I wonder what I should do.
I wonder if ya gonna come back. Or just turn and run back.
I hear nothing.

5 years down the track I think about you left and centre.
I wonder if you remember me.
When we were best friends.
I know I do, and it hurts to know that I haven’t seen or heard from you.

I know we were young and we haven’t seen each other in years. But the memories are still there, in my heart you’re still my friend. No matter where you are.
I wonder if you miss the times we had together. Like when we ran from that bull your shirt got stuck in the fence and I untangled you.

I miss you lots and I hope we see each other soon.
I don’t know when and I don’t know how but we will meet soon.
There’s not many people like you so how hard can it be.
There is no one in this world that means so much to me.

I wonder whether u will read this
I wonder if you will care.
I wonder I wonder
I wonder where you are now
I hope that you have found a friend that care’s for you as much as me.
I hope your happy and loving life, like you should be.
I wonder I wonder
I wonder where you are.

people are always breaking op going in and out of love
One thing I wantn to let you know is that I`ll never let you down
no matter how crazy you drive me sometime
But I don`t want to know.

When ever I need you, you are always aroun me

Okay, so this is my story. I went out with this girl Lauren, for over a year, when, I seriously screwed up. I went to a party at a hotel when she begged me not to go, and I ended up get so drunk I blacked out, and woke up next to a another girl. Lauren didn’t go, it was me, the girl I woke up next to, and a few other people I went to high school with at the time. She found out about a week later, because I was still struggling with the truth, and I couldn’t man up to breaking her poor heart.This was six months ago. We’ve been in this “friends with benefits” mode since then, because she wants to be with me, but can’t go out with me, but doesn’t trust me, but still loves me. We get into little arguments and now it got to the point where she got drunk on a high school camping trip and slept in another guys tent. We agreed that we wouldn’t drink anymore because of the obvious reasons behind why we broke up.

You can believe me or not, but I really didn’t mean to cheat on her nor did I intend on it. I got so drunk, I lost control of who I was, and woke up next to the biggest mistake of my life. She really can’t bring herself to get back together with me, but I can’t blame her. But what really gets me is that she’s 16, and she’s so immature about everything, and she always listens to her friends about the situation. Me, I’m 19, and I follow my heart and when I tell you, I knew this girl for 3 years before we started dating, and I am in love with her. But I just don’t know what to do anymore. I resorted to giving her the last and final “ultimatum” and say listen, you need to grow up, and decide what you really want because I’m not going to be hurt like this anymore. And we haven’t talked in a week.

But over this week, I still feel like I’m wrong, and that I need her so much in my life, I love that f*cking girl more then I love my mother. I just want to be happy again. Can anyone tell me what else I can do, besides making her ignore me and come to terms? Please, someone help. I need your comments.